Unique

By

 Marini

 

I still can remember my ex-teacher said that human beings are unique.  Everyone has different characters, different attitudes and acts differently towards something.  So, we are so unique.  Even Allah creates humans with variety of races and religions.  For what…? for us to get know each other and to get along with each other to make this world as a harmony place to live. 

 

I watched “Gol  & Gincu” last time, there was a dialogue between a mother and a daughter. Her daughter keeps worrying about his boyfriend telling her, she is not cukup Melayu since her dad is an American while her mom is Malaysian. She tries so hard to prove to her bf that she is a Malay girl, so she impresses his boyfriend by wearing baju kurung every time she meets him, watching Malay movies and even reads Malay novel.  Her mom told her that being a Malay, Chinese, Indian doesn’t make any difference.  We are unique, the most important thing is we respect each other as who we are.

 

Well, back to that girl, at the end of the day she realizes that she has her own unique characters. Pretending to be fully Malay is impossible to be done even though she trying so hard, even feels so embarrass while giving the merapu pantun.  Lastly, she gave up and told her bf to accept her as whom she is. So, that’s it, her bf gets the picture and he just wants to let his gf knows that life is not all about going shopping, wearing fancy stuff and have a over-social-life. He wants her to explore some other worlds.  What I understand from her bf message is, we are living in this world with a lot of people, we are not living in our “own world” and we have to keep remember that we are so unique so that we have to learn to respect others’ way of life.

 

Talking about uniqueness…as we know, different people has their different attitudes.  But as I think deeply regarding of this matter don’t we notice that for certain attitudes, every one of us has them. For example, talking something bad about others (mengumpat la tu)… I believe most of us are like that.  More examples, stealing money, bad temper, like to smoke, laugh loudly, talk-active, lazy, hardworking, amiable, ambitious, driven person, soft-spoken, like to sleep all the time, being selfish, arrogant, kind, humble, eccentric…I’m sure that some of us share the same attitudes.  So I can say that, we cannot be unique based on attitudes because if I say that I am so particular about something, millions of people has the same attitude. If I say that I don’t like people using my stuff without permission, I think all of us will don’t like that too. 

 

So the uniqueness of human beings can only be measured by using the scientific method and with science we can know we are different from other people by DNA and our finger prints.  No one in this world shares the same DNA and finger prints and it makes us so unique. We are the only one in this world who has different DNA and finger print so this is the only way for crime investigators to catch the real criminals according to their DNA and finger prints that left at the crime scene. Amazing right…

 

Allah creates us with different of capability, special gift , weakness and strength, different talent meaning to say that not everyone can be a good singer, not everyone has IQ over 400, not everyone can curl his/her tongue, not everyone able to move his/her ears, not everyone can paint a masterpiece and so on.  Again, we are unique although we still share a few same things.  What we have to do is be grateful for what we have although we are poor, fat, ugly or what so ever, the most important thing is we have to know how to use our strengths and overcome our weaknesses so that we can be a better person and live without complaining this and that.  Find our own meaning of happiness in our life although the definition of happiness of life will be changed time to time depends on certain situation and believe that Allah is Maha Adil by creating us with different kind of characters and talents.  Live with lots of L.O.V.E and make fully use of our strength to archive the true meaning of life…happiness, peaceful n amar makruf & nahi mungkar..

 

Remember…there is inside you all the potential to be whatever you want to be, all the energy to do whatever you want to do. Imagine yourself to be what ever you want to be, doing what you want to do. Take one step each day towards your dreams. Though there is a time for you too difficult to continue, hold on to your dreams. One day, you will wake up in the morning to find that you are the person you dreamt of, be whatever you wanted to be, do whatever you wanted to do, simply because you have the courage to believe in your potential and to hold to your dreams…

 

With this uniqueness, we can cherish our life with love and happiness.  I really hope that people who think he is so powerful, it doesn’t mean that you can make fun of the weak people. Without the weak person, there will be no Y.O.U….!! Remember that!  (Dedicated to the Zionist and US leader...get ready for the people like us (Muslims) who you think so weak to wake up to fight you back…! Allah promises something for us…just wait and see)

 

Still hoping for our world to be a better place to live before we are living in Akhirat…